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Grumble
09-12-2003, 11:14 PM
I have always considered Pixies folk to be a family of sorts because of the caring nature and acceptance of the people that frequent it.

The way we put our feelings, doubts, happy times out there and the reaction you get to them. Always supportive and helpful even when people do not agree with each other, it never becomes abusive. We have a great place here.

It has been so reinforced with the planning of my trip. There are so many of my Pixies friends that have invited me to stay in their homes that I am quite overwhelmed. I mean this is real life stuff not people being anonymous and they know so much intimate stuff about me and I them, It makes me get the warm fuzzies deep inside.

All in all it is places like Pixies that are the antidote for the Osama Bin ladens and terrorists, we practise tolerance and promote friendship and caring between ourselves no matter where we come from, what our ethnic or religous differences are and we come from all over the globe. How come we can do it yet others can't?

When you look at it in that light, we are pretty special people and have a very special piece of the internet.

I wish you all love, health and happiness, huge hugs to all you wonderful people

with humble gratitude
Grumble

lakritze
09-12-2003, 11:56 PM
Ever notice that a caring nature,gentle,non abusive,intellegent,nurturing,sensativity, and all around decency are traits of people who are open and comfortable with their sexuality? Some of the best people I have met on line have been from forums like pixies and Isadora's.

dicksbro
09-13-2003, 06:23 AM
Thank you, GG. And, you're absolutely right. This is a very special place. And your wishes ... well, they're my wishes for you as well, mate.

DB

osuche
09-13-2003, 09:43 AM
As a relatively new addition to the Pixies family, I have been struck by the same realizations. Thanks for helping me realize that others feel the same way.

I wishe we could all have a group hug right now...

Belial
09-13-2003, 09:58 AM
*hugs osuche to start the group hug*

(((((((((((((osuche))))))))))))))

dm383
09-13-2003, 01:32 PM
Yep, we sure do have a very SPECIAL place here, Uncle Grumble!! :D

DM

Lilith
09-13-2003, 02:26 PM
To me it is about respect. We genuinely care about eachother and welcome" in-laws"(newbies) into the fold. We also have always welcomed back "out-laws" (returning members) regardless of how long they have been away or why. Most of the members here respect each other's differences and very few are grudge-holders, both behaviors, disrespect & grudge-holding can cause severe disruptions in the even flow and groove of a place like this. Plus they are super bad karma;)

I think lakritze has a point that people who are open and accepting about sex tend to be that way about life and people in general. We have also been very fortunate to have had very few instances of truly deceitful or unkind people attempt to rile the boards. Of course those people either lose their heads or eventually give up and get in on the groove;)

Kissy
09-13-2003, 02:42 PM
I have to admit I'm amazed that after 2 years not only do I still check in every day, but I enjoy it as a special part of my day. I've loved seeing everyone change, and sharing my life as it's changed. When I had joined I had been married just over a year. Now I'm expecting my second child and my husband and I are celebrating our 4 year anniversary this fall. I have learned a lot from everyone here. And I appreciate that people give honest judgment here when asked for it, and otherwise are just supportive. Thanks everyone, and thanks Grumble for putting feelings into words.:p

Casperr
09-14-2003, 03:28 AM
Very well said, everyone.
We've got a great bunch of very intelligent, very tolerant and very open people here. Love ya all!

And Kissyface, congratulations on your 4 year anniversary coming up! And on the new bub!

CasperTG