Harassment/ Cyber Stalking/ Intimidation

[Lilith]

I want to remind all members current and pospective that these forums will not be used to harass or intimidate members. Any member who uses the email/PM system/boards for the purpose of harassing or intimidating members will not be allowed to remain a member. This is policy and stands whether the offender be female or male. You have to be 18 to access these boards and mature, safe, responsible behavior is expected.


If you are unclear if something you are doing is possible harassment I suggest you contact a moderator.

Somethings that fall into this category are:

Repeatedly contacting a member who has refused contact with you.

Posting or messaging that is solely to intimidate, violent, or threatening.

Using the site resources to gain information used to harass or stalk members elsewhere.



I invite members to elaborate on what types of activities they consider to be inappropriate.

I also want to encourage any member who ever feels intimidated or harassed to contact me or anyone of the fabulous moderators. We have ways of dealing with people who do not respect the boundaries.

[Kissy]

I enjoy getting pm's and I understand that Pixies is an adult site, but it does get a little wierd when someone who hasn't ever posted before pms me wanted pictures or something. Especialy since I haven't posted pictures in over a year! But most people take the hint when I just ignore them that I'm not interested.

I do love the comfort of pixies and appriciate so many people who make it fun to hang out here! :p

[WildIrish]

Great idea. This site is a great place to visit and I'm amazed at how you all keep it an upbeat, positive and "safe" place to meet.

I have pretty thick skin, so not much bothers me. But it's nice to have the rules spelled out for us all because as polite and witty as I try to be, well, someone who doesn't know me can misinterpret things. It's a good reminder.

Thanks.

[babybunny]

I dont mind PMs one bit...Its when people like to harrass you on an IM server that bothers me. Yes I have a life...yes I dont respond to IMs at that very second. So please quit "Buzzing" me! Ok rant over...hehe...Gotta love the ignore button.. :)

[jseal]

Lilith,

Hear! Hear!

The occasional reminder is always in order. Let's keep Pixies pleasant!

[Cobalt]

Thank You Lilith, a reminder is usually a good idea.

[Steph]

Much appreciated.

[Cheyanne]

Yes...... ((((HUGS)))) and a big thank you Lilith.... AND all of the fab mods!!! :D

I have seen the mods in action when inappropriate behavior is going on (Sharni morphing in chat :D ), and know that members are and will continue to be protected!!!

(I love this place!!)

[Sugarsprinkles]

Thanks for the reminder, Lilith.

Fortunately I've not had any problems and with reminders like this hopefully that will remain so.

[Lilith]

Well it's hard to realize that what one person may find amusing another may find intimidating...

The rule of thumb is , if someone is not interested in you then back off!!!!!

[2-4-tea]

I hate it when someone takes something good and kills it.I have been stalked for the last year by someone I was up front with and told I was not interested in. Everytime I thought it was safe back in the water there she was again.I finally think its over cross your fingers for me

[cowgirltease]

* hugs to 2-4-tea*

[cowgirltease]

I have one comment to make on this matter...............
EVERYONE has a right to privacy......... Even a MARRIED woman.:D

[PantyFanatic]

YEAH!


So quit harassing me….. and intimidating me….. and embarrassing me.


Well you can embarrass me a little if you want, but just a little…. Try naked pictures.:D

I’m bashful, and you might make me blush.:o









WELL?…………………… Go ahead. Make me blush……….. PLEEEEEEASE.:rolleyes:









;)

[Sugarsprinkles]

Originally posted by pantyfanatic

Go ahead. Make me blush……….. PLEEEEEEASE.:rolleyes:





Gee, PF.....................that's one of the reactions I was hoping for when I started that Panties for Pantyfanatic thread......:D :p :devil:

[Max_theHitMan]

Yes... harassing people is an offense only dealt with extreme punishment.

As a moderator myself on other forums, we deal with "lurkers" all the time.
Just get their IP numbers and throw the book at `em.

[exhib_it_all]

I'd like to also thank the moderators for doing such a great job here. I love being part of this safe, responsible comminunity!

[quisath]

If your Female (All Woman) and you want to HAIR Ass Me .................... then go for it. :) But if your a little girl and want to play then "HIT the road" .............. Got no time for Childs Play!

Thank You Lilith for reminding everyone! Now............ Lets all get Naaked and jump in a Pile!!!!!!! :):)

[SuzyQ]

There is a Panties for Pantyfanatic thread..I am off to look for it..and damn I mailed him mine...Does this count as harassment?

I love this place..I have not been harrased yet...anyone I have asked to not PM me has consented to my wishes...the moderators do a fabulous job

[PantyFanatic]

Originally posted by SuzyQ
There is a Panties for Pantyfanatic thread..I am off to look for it..and damn I mailed him mine...Does this count as harassment?

I love this place..I have not been harrased yet...anyone I have asked to not PM me has consented to my wishes...the moderators do a fabulous job
I hope you got my PM SuzyQ.
It has complete instruction on using PM, my Yahoo, AOL IM and MSN IM nicks and addresses.:D I included my home address, my Fed Ex and UPS Express account numbers as well as the link to the PANTY thread.:p..... Just in case you want to harass me:D

[Sharni]

LMAO@PF

[SuzyQ]

Wow will take me at least a year to follow all those up LOL

[PashkinThePanther]

It's a shame that such reminders have to be given but that's the world we live in...

PS, if anyone harrasses me, they must have weird tastes... :-:rolleyes: , but if you're female, I shan't complain......

[zipededoo]

Can I harass you sometime AnimalNOT? Tee hee...

Totally agree. What is the world coming to?

Zipper xxx

[Euphemism]

And here I thought this thread was for signing up for my very own stalker. Again, my heart is broken. /mourn

[SuzyQ]

Just to add to all this..unless you are sure of the person you are pm-ing with, and even if you think you are it is not wise to give out your phone number...I did once and paid for it, but was not on Pixies. Was on DalNet.

[Ryan²]

I don't mind gettung PM's, and sending them is just as much a pleasure. I understand the rules here.

[musketeer]

Got mixed up with someone on another forum a couple of years ago - started off as just chatting and then things went strange and she started PMing in other places, I ended up changing ISP's. Its not fun it's not nice don't do it.

"Do unto others as you would have done unto you"

[jennaflower]

sorry to hear that you had such a bad experience musketeer... fortunately here... between the great admin/mods and the wonderful people who tend to make the majority... this isn't such a problem here.... tho.. like with any place on the web.. the risk is there... :(

Glad to see tho.. that your past experience hasn't turned you away :)

[musketeer]

Thanks for that Jenna your a :banner: